If your writing critique group feels more like a firing line, understand that it may not be all your fault. In a community of artists you would probably expect a nurturing and supportive group, but in a situation where everyone is clawing for attention I suppose it's natural for some to try to move other competitors on the ladder rung below them. The artificial propping for the arrogant, untalented writer never lasts, though -- but it's fascinating to see the group dynamics progress.
Writing groups are filled with vulnerable people -- offering their work to the crowd has been called by some "like standing naked in front of the class." Perhaps the arrogance and snobby comments are simply a defense mechanism for those scared folks. Perhaps it works in that group, and then the writers continue to use those behaviors as their writing success continues. Let's face it -- I'm not particularly fond of criticism, plot tips, or people who point out my use-overuse of my favorite double dashes. And yes, when my feelings get hurt I want to lash out too.
As a community of writers, I feel we need to be more welcoming to new members and present a more professional attitude toward our readers.
Copyright 2009 Trisha M. Barnes
Trisha, I agree with your observations of many of our fellow writers. It's a shame that this type of behavior often scares away truly talented people.
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ReplyDeleteIt's probably the #1 reason why I have never joined a writer's group....that and fear of success! PS: your debut novel looks intriguing! I'll be on the lookout for it. Double PS: thank you for that one comment on my "Siskiyou" blog post a while back! Really made my day!
-Gambolin' Man
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